DISQUS

Michaela Potter · 9 months ago

I completely relate to how easy it is to get off track with your goals. Excel sheets have played a HUGE part in the development and creation of our travel-related website (and most likely in the redesign of my creative services website).

Now that we are launched, the excel sheets keep growing (marketing contacts, seo research, email lists, etc...). It's easy to get overwhelmed with all of the "potential" projects. I'm lucky that I have a partner so we can keep each other focused on our goals - and hopefully do more writing and creative projects in the process.

Best of luck staying focused on your writing and National Travel Writing Month!

Rhonda Michelle · 9 months ago

Hello Christine,

I'm a new follower & instant fan. The honesty that shows through in your writing is incredibly refreshing and liberating. Since becoming more active online this last year I've been peeling away the layers, revealing more and more of my own truth - first to myself & second to others. I finally got to a place where I dropped alot of the judgment about what I "should have" done and just got all square on what I *have* done. No matter how much I did I always seemed to have that nasty little internal critic raining on my parade, who was just so eager to see what i would do "NEXT"!

I too have been in corp America, w/some "great jobs" at large companies and it just about drove me to insanity. I've been self employed for some time now and have been undergoing a pretty substantial overhaul in my perspective on my life and life in general. Vague, yes, but suffice it to say it seems like you've plucked out my brain & soul some of the exact same sentiments & thoughts that I've had for *many, many* years.

Thank you so much for your candor and willingness to share your thoughts, adventures & life with your readers - it's been making a huge difference with me already... :)

WildJunket · 9 months ago

Yes, I think all of us as travel writers have one way or another redirected to the 'easier' route and lost focus along the way. At some point in time, I had to ask myself, why am I doing all these? When all I wanted to do at the beginning, was to write.

It's true, it never gets easier or routine. That's the beauty and fun of it. Thanks Christine for saying it right out. Time to refocus on what we love most.

nomadicmatt · 9 months ago

does this mean our cubicle website is on hold!

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Chad @ Sentient Money · 9 months ago

I always enjoy your articles about life. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy the travel articles, just that I usually don't have much to add to those. Then again, I'm not adding much here am I.

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Fly Girl · 9 months ago

You're a girl after my own heart,Christine. Make moves! Start projects! Nobody could ever accuse you of being a slacking writer. It's a distraction technique that I used to use pretty well back when I was an unfulfilled publicist almost 15 years ago. I've been writing so long now that it's about all I know how to do besides teaching and the energy that teaching sucks out of you has made me leery of ever doing it more than part-time. I totally relate to your situation though. As you become more secure in your writing career you won't even think about doing anything else. It just takes time.

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Sonia · 9 months ago

As always, this is a really interesting exploration of a great topic. I'm really good at distracting myself with Excel spreadsheets too. ;)

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Craig · 9 months ago

Good points: do what you want. That's the goal, right?

But god I hate excel. How can anyone spend more than 3 minutes with it an not want to carve out their eyeballs. Ugly, ugly data entry!

Sara · 9 months ago

I love excel too. I'm great at coming up with projects, mapping them out, organizing them...and then being too bogged down in details to actually implement. (oh, and being afraid that they wouldn't work!) One of the reasons I'm looking forward to April and the NaTraWriMo - no more excuses!!

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almost realized · 9 months ago

Oh, I thought that this was going to be about you building on online business and quitting the writing thing, because you're much better at the former. I think people have particular talents and you should follow yours. Dreams always need to be grounded in reality.

Christine · 9 months ago

@almost realized:

Besides you using my site as your email address (christine@almostfearless.com-- original, although I wonder why you wouldn't use your real identity), I think you have a point. Surely people should follow what they are good at-- it only makes sense. But, I can't. Sorry, but it makes me crazy to even think about my old life, and to be honest, I'd rather be a really bad, underpaid writer, than an excellent sell-out. Maybe it's not realistic to follow my particular dream, everyone knows that being a writer is not only competitive but not very lucrative-- but I have to try. I'm okay with failing-- reality be damned. It's only life after all. Who exactly said "Dreams always need to be grounded in reality"? Who made that rule? I'm not sure I'm willing to buy into that-- at least not yet. Who knows, you may be right. We'll see. But sometimes being right isn't half as much fun as taking a chance on yourself.

Audrey · 9 months ago

Seems like you've been a fly on the wall these last few months :) We've had so many side projects and new ideas recently that are all wonderful, but the reality is that they distract from what we said we wanted to do: develop our writing skills and become published writers along this journey.

I'm not sure that I'm cut out to be a full-time writer and photographer - the jury (internal and external) is still out on that. But I'll never know until I actually give it a real try...and stop getting distracted.

Looking forward to National Travel Writing Month - thanks for managing it again this year!

<abbr>Audrey´s last blog post..Good Morning, Guatemala!</abbr>

Beth Partin · 9 months ago

Thanks for a great post. I've been wondering lately why I haven't been working on any of my "planned" projects, and this post gave me a lot of insight into my dilemma. And thanks to Fly Girl for the comment about becoming secure as a writer.

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Stevo · 9 months ago

It's easy to slip into old patterns, isn't it. Try as I might, I end up doing the same thing. Thanks, I'll take you post as a wake-up call for my own behavior.

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Heatheronhertravels · 9 months ago

I'm the opposite, Christine. Don't mind the writing but don't think I'll ever be great at it, but running a business that allow you to work with a view of the beach - now that's cool!

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