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Most powerful piece in your post is realizing the true reasons why you're doing things and making the decisions you're making.
A statement that really struck a cord with me was during a recent Oprah show where she says, "can you imagine how many people go to their graves after years of slaving away at some job??"
As much as I love all the things I do (including the fulltime job which allows me to work remotely from anywhere), I'm quickly realizing all those balls can't stay in the air for long.
Something's gotta give.
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but it is work. It's tough. It requires a lot of time....but once it gets going, it is smooth sailing.
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Christine again - ROCK ON!! You're doin' it!!
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Keep going. I have a premonition that you will find something that feels like success on your terms very soon.
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Our story is a little different because we travel the world as a family, we retired early so see things from a 50's vantage point, and we are going on our third year of our open ended world tour.
Still, I can relate to much of what you say and feel proud of all that you have accomplished! I always call myself a scaredy-cat adventurer, because despite adoring freedom, I also deal with fears and phobias ( claustrophobia,vertigo etc). I am extremely conscientious about wanting to make every choice the best choice too.
Making the decision to take our journey & selling our dream home that we had poured our hearts into building, was THE most agonizing decision of our lives.I could relate to leaving the known behind, but we left a very happy, full life. We were more motivated by our child's education and having time together as a family. We had to let go of one very fulfilling thing,to reach for an even higher degree of "heaven on earth".
I wish everyone could find their ultimate "heaven on earth". I think too many do get caught in very limited lives of routine, sleep walking years away, missing their children growing, missing the love and adventures all around. Few experience much of the world, fewer still get to know it deeply.
Because we have attained satisfaction in our careers and have enough to retire on, we don't have the issues around careers, so it has been all about freedom and quite easy sense we jumped off our cliff into a life full of adventure and living in the now through travel and deep immersion. We create because we enjoy it and things have just snowballed a bit in that area out of a desire to share. We did not know so many would be interested in our journey & we find we love the creative outlets of writing, photography, video.
But I can relate to managing Christine Inc in our own way. For us it is finding the balance in it all. There are so many opportunities in a life like this, but again time is the greatest luxury. We love volunteering with our non-profit Reach The World that allows us to take disadvantaged school kids with us, but it also takes up a lot of precious time.
We love the people we meet through the internet, but again, there is the time issue. We continue to define how we walk this road in freedom with just the right balance. Perhaps it is never possible to be perfectly balanced, but we are having fun finding that spot for us!
Good luck with your Plans for Mexico! I think it all will get easier and easier for you and yes it is worth it and I for one, think you made absolutely the best decision! Sometimes we must just feel our fear and do it any way! That is what I find myself doing over and over on this journey and it makes me stronger.
The other day I had a severe Vertigo attack as I was walking on a very narrow part of the ancient wall here in beautiful Rothenburg, Germany. With the help of my husband & child I got through it and we enjoyed the rest of the day. A life where one lives in the "now" will have challenges like any other, but is far more rewarding even with the challenges. I know you got to experience a medical challenge with your husband in Madrid, we have done extensive dental work, ambulances and many doctor visits in many different countries. One gains confidence by going through them.
ANYONE can travel the world and do exotic travel like an overnight in the Sahara ... even an overweight,gimpy, scaredy-cat, old lady like me. Life is really too short to miss the good stuff, even if you are totally full of fear. When I am at my wall of fear, I remind myself of this acronym for fear...false evidence appearing real.
I love how your posts bring out deep thinking!
Carpe Diem!
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It’s fantastic what you are doing. I am half way there, but not as completely as you are. Keep going, so I can read about it :-). Wish you luck, perseverance, health, fun cash flow, courage… you get the picture.
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Funny timing on this post - my mom and I were just talking about this at breakfast this morning. I'm staying with her till Christmas, and we both knew this time was my chance to sort of re-charge and build a platform for myself without the pressure of rent payments. (I quit my job a little prematurely, at least in purely financial terms, last spring.) But every day is a choice between "building a platform" in the sense of building up my savings again, versus "building a platform" in terms of laying the foundation for the type of writing career I truly want. It's a daily struggle to balance the two - and frustrating that they seem to involve two completely different types of work! :)
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This is a beautiful post. Thanks for taking us along on your extraordinary journey.
Your post made me think about bravery. It's been my experience that "brave" can look like a lot of different things. Some people will say that you were brave to quit your job or that I am brave to teach overseas... but sometimes the bravest things that people do are small and humble and much closer to home.
I like that, in the story of your journey, you encourage us to be true to ourselves.
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I am doing part-time what you are doing full-time.
Godspeed to you!
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great post, that confirm you are a hard worker on the "having a better life" job.
I have a question for you: what about if you (read me...) had children ? It still the right thing leave some kind of financial security to follow a dream of a more rich way of life ? And rich to me means travelling, learning new languages, knowing other countries lifestyle....
I think this would be a great experience also for the children, but it's a so hard decision to take in their place !
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As usual, a great post Christine.
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It took me 5 years since the realization that my soul was dying at my job (a prestigious career at a top 5 law firm in the world), to have the courage to leap. This week is the week I'm giving my two weeks' notice!!
After my 30th birthday I got a better and clearer sense of that phrase people often throw around: "life is short."
So finding your blog this year Christine was no coincidence for me! I'm at that place you were some months ago, mulling over what to say when you meet the boss to give your notice.
It's scary sure but I know it's what I need and want to do! I know the road ahead of freelance writing will be hard but I'll be spending my energy on something I love.
Reading those of you who have made the leap gives me even more courage.
I can hardly wait till the day this week that I actually say "I'm leaving the firm"!
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It is scary to make such a big leap of faith, and there is always that nagging worry about money, security, etc. But believe me, it is WORTH it!
Thanks, Christine!
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You can really do whatever you want.
Breathe, breathe in the air
Don't be afraid to care
Leave, but don't leave me
Look around
Choose your own ground
Long you live and high you fly
And smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry
And all you touch and all you see
Is all your life will ever be
Run, rabbit run
Dig that hole, forget the sun
And when at last the work is done
Don't sit down
It's time to dig another one
For long you live and high you fly
But only if you ride the tide
And balanced on the biggest wave
You race towards an early grave
You're absolutely right, though: It feels great to have complete control of my life and to know that I've pushed myself to do something outside what I would've imagined only a year ago.
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Christine, I love your writing style, and it's kinda scary sometimes, cause you really nail it as far as some of the fear aspects I find myself in... as well or better then I could express them myself.
Cheers,
-Skip
Why not just ask for the part of money. I put myself through a few years of university by asking for the money. At my job, I really just 'ask' for the money every month and they continue to pay me. I've asked for things my whole life. The cool thing about this world is the whole 'pay it forward' approach ... Do unto others ...
I'm in for $100 a month. That might only last you an hour ... or a day ... or a week. Cash 'subscriptions' to your online newsletter may only help pay for 1/3 of your trip, you'll have to get the other 1/3 from writing, and maybe another 1/3 for transporting packages across borders? :) Not sure, but I'm sure it will all come together - don't you have a rich uncle? :)
Chris.
Have a great trip to Mexico.