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To me travel means the act of prioritizing experience over stuff. That is to say, I believe that it is going out and doing things - even small things - outside the realm of everyday life. This might mean climbing Mount Kilimanjaro. Or it might mean taking your toddler to explore a nearby town you've never visited instead of going to the grocery store on a Friday morning.
Like you and your husband I've often had to make work and family fit into my travel plans. It was the only way to take off for 13 months with a 1 year old, which my husband and I did.
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Perhaps too many people (myself included) expect that we can just travel without working and forget that we need to carve out the best way of living.
I'd like to do the whole simplicity thing and live out of a back pack with just my laptop and guitar. And perhaps if I was unplugged for a while I'd get some writing done! I think this is better than the short breaks I'm cramming in at the moment around my job.
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Everyone's life is unique so the workarounds vary - traveling with dogs isn't moronic at all - if you've got two dogs you make plans for it. Same if you had 2 kids, etc.
I wouldn't take the negative comments to heart ;) we all get them from time to time..
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I applaud you for finding a style that works for you, your husband, and your furry friends.
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The worst part of traveling for me is the fact that I miss my dogs so much - I love the fact that your dogs are a priority and accompany you on your travels. I follow your journey SPECIFICALLY because you are doing it "another way" so thank you for sharing :).
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Anyhow, my feeling is: live life the way you'd like to live it, travel as you'd like to travel. What matters most is how you satisfied you are with your style of travel, not what others think about it.
But you are in the public eye and you've got a blog, so you open yourself up. Double-edged sword. There are trolls who seem to enjoy pissing in someone else's Cheerios and there are bloggers and networkers who are genuinely terrific. Hopefully, on the whole, you experience much fewer of the former than you do of the latter.
Enjoy the journey.
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I look forward to all your adventures, your post on the blog is getting attention too. Go girl. I nominate you "absolutley fearless"
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Travel for me is meeting exploring my self, wind/waves, locals, cultures and countries. Take time to relax less planning, the better the travel gets.
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Christine, if you want to hop scotch your way down to the end of the world, be sure to take loads of pictures, 'cos I'll be reading all the way through.
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K x
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I've never traveled the "correct" way then. I've always just done it "my" way, and for me that is the best way.
Just as the best way for you is "your" way. ;-)
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One nasty comment, block that IP from posting. That's not to say they're gone, but it's a bit more difficult for them to post again. There's no point in having some flame-war with them - they'll win. Ignore & block.
You tend to ask for it though with your blog posts ... the "what do I do now" posts. You look to the blogosphere for answers on itineraries, destinations, ways & means, etc. I'm not here to pass any sort of judgment on that approach (yeah, right!) ... but I wouldn't do it. It's just asking for more people like the person from Boston to tell you how 'moronic' you are. Continue the same way, but ignore the comments. If you really want an opinion, send the same questions to your trusted friends via email ...
Now, I wouldn't take a car, because I'd be too paranoid about breaking down in the back of beyond, and requiring an expensive part to be shipped in ... UNLESS the car was a cheap,locally-bought klunker that I could abandon by the roadside if repair would be too expensive. But, that's me ... !!
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I also have a day job, and I try very hard to strive for chances to get around, and try many different things in Shanghai, where I am stationed right now.
I also have my ways of travelling, in response to yours. And I am on your side.
I think some people struggle with others not conforming to their own perception of travel. Travel has become such a brand these days that anyone who doesn't comply is almost seen as unfashionable. I think it's a generation thing, the 80's generation (that's me) grew up without the right of claiming true Hippy status, so they got together (probably in Thailand) and realised they all looked and acted pretty similar - so naturally that was the way things would be.
Only the Hippy's never died, they just went into hiding. My point being. Each generation will have the text book way to being loose, but we all know that it's those that throw the book away (therefore ignore the rules) that we find the most compelling.
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I figure it's the same with music, you have those people who can't listen to bands that anyone else likes. Well, maybe there's a reason no one else listens to them.
I figure traveling comfortably and in a way that suits your lifestyle is still traveling. Are you outside of your country? Check. Are you on the move in one way or another? Check. Are you aiming to experience the sights and sounds of another environment? Check. You don't have to be living in a mud pit eating grasshoppers for it to be considered traveling, though I imagine in ten years the travel snobs will be all over that destination for their backpacking adventures.
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i also work full time to save money for long term - i'm lucky that I have four weeks of vacation -but I make the most of them. Which means travel by air to one place, not long bus or train trips (unless that's the trip in itself)
All the best - james.. http://www.futuregringo.com
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No two journeys should be alike.
-Skip
Note from Christine: I'm leaving this in, because I don't ever delete comments (unless they are spam).
@Cluetrain: I hear what you are saying, I don't agree and I have outlined my position in this post. This was never just about you, it has been something I have noticed over time and I thought I should address it. At this point, I don't think there is anything constructive that I can add. If you continue to name call, I will delete your comments. I do not mind differing opinions. You don't have to like me or agree with me to comment here. But you do have to be civil. You've been warned.
Also, If you need any recommendations for PV, just let me know.
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I think having a branding that says "Almost Fearless - Quit your job. Travel the world." will especially envite scrutiny. It's a pretty strong statement. I've met people doing all kind of crazy travel adventures most of which I would not have the cajones to do that I would consider almost fearless. Is it almost fearless to you? Yes. Is it almost fearless to me and a lot of people I meet traveling? Probably not. The writing is good, the style you are traveling is good, but for me, it doesn't fit the branding.
Just a thought :)
As far as the "right" way to travel goes, if someone wants to say you're doing it wrong that just shows his or her own closed mind. And yes, you can have a closed mind even if you travel (hey there, @cluetrain!). Who says that flying first or staying in a luxury resort doesn't count? If I do that but get out of my resort every day, seeing the sites and interacting with locals, isn't that more of a "transformative adventure" than someone who's roughing it hitch hiking and staying in a hostel but only ever hanging out with gringos and going to the expat/tourist hang outs? I think so, but if you want to take the second route then go for it - it's YOUR trip, so YOU get to choose what to do!
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-Robin (also in Boston):)
Also, yay Boston! That's my hometown too :)
Yes, I agree with you... travel can be of any type. Depends on different situations. No one should actually dictate you.
I, myself, advocate for slow travel soaking in the local culture and history.
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Have fun with your pooches!
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Thanks for the article!
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Nomad where you will and let the critiques enjoy their time in Boston.
Taking it slower will let you enjoy traveling for many more years, and it may help save some carbon as well. The train is orders of magnitude friendlier to the planet than flying or driving and lets you visit places that are altogether different from cookie-cutter airport lobbies and hotel rooms.
You're own way, so long as you are doing what works for you you're traveling right. That's not to say though that you should not always look for ways you could make your travel experiences better.
Looking forward to your next post.